You have done this if you have ever been told “I value our friendship too much to date you.” From a girl you were friends with, and tried to take it to the next level or be romantic with.

When you heard this you probably thought to yourself “That is such bull, you are suppose to be friends with the person you are dating.” And you are 100% right.

In addition women want to be with a man that is going to treat her well. You could have been that man but you blew it because you were too nice. However this is a very common mistake and every man has made it.

The problem is when you act this way it is often seen as pathetic, wimpy, and insecure. Women do not want to be with a man that displays these characteristics. Instead they are looking to be with confident, secure, strong, and independent men.

You can portray this and avoid being seen as too nice by;

1. When meeting women do not give her any compliments.

2. Do not hold the door open for her

3. Go out of your way to tease or make fun (when and where appropriate)

4. Don’t always “be there”

5. Take it to the “next level or get romantic” before you can get categorized as too good of a friend.

Don’t take this the wrong way because I am by no means suggesting you treat women poorly. However when you are seen as too nice it often kills any potential interest. Instead you should focus your effort on the conversation and your interaction with her to create attraction.

While women do want to be treated well they want to be treated like an equal first. You can treat her like a queen once you are in a relationship, however if you treat her that well initially she is not likely to be interested in your for long.

During your interactions if you are in doubt, go against your gut. If you are anything like me you are naturally a nice person, thus go against your instinct. Don’t be mean and don’t insult her, just don’t apologize, compliment, or try and be chivalrous (holding doors open, apologizing for stepping on her foot). You can, but only once you are in a relationship with her will she appreciate it and think of you as sweet for doing it.

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You have done this if you have ever been told “I value our friendship too much to date you.” From a girl you were friends with, and tried to take it to the next level or be romantic with.

When you heard this you probably thought to yourself “That is such bull, you are suppose to be friends with the person you are dating.” And you are 100% right.

In addition women want to be with a man that is going to treat her well. You could have been that man but you blew it because you were too nice. However this is a very common mistake and every man has made it.

The problem is when you act this way it is often seen as pathetic, wimpy, and insecure. Women do not want to be with a man that displays these characteristics. Instead they are looking to be with confident, secure, strong, and independent men.

You can portray this and avoid being seen as too nice by;

1. When meeting women do not give her any compliments.

2. Do not hold the door open for her

3. Go out of your way to tease or make fun (when and where appropriate)

4. Don’t always “be there”

5. Take it to the “next level or get romantic” before you can get categorized as too good of a friend.

Don’t take this the wrong way because I am by no means suggesting you treat women poorly. However when you are seen as too nice it often kills any potential interest. Instead you should focus your effort on the conversation and your interaction with her to create attraction.

While women do want to be treated well they want to be treated like an equal first. You can treat her like a queen once you are in a relationship, however if you treat her that well initially she is not likely to be interested in your for long.

During your interactions if you are in doubt, go against your gut. If you are anything like me you are naturally a nice person, thus go against your instinct. Don’t be mean and don’t insult her, just don’t apologize, compliment, or try and be chivalrous (holding doors open, apologizing for stepping on her foot). You can, but only once you are in a relationship with her will she appreciate it and think of you as sweet for doing it.

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I hope that you have never whistled at a girl or tried to gain her attention through a pickup line.

If you have you probably realize now that girls do not respond positively to these pathetic attempts to communicate with them. If you have not realized it and have gotten a positive response with this approach I suggest a visit to the doctor because you may be in need of some Penicillin.

During your actual conversation with a woman is when she will decide if you are a creep and mace you in the face or you are a cute guy and give you her phone number.

The best piece of advice I have been given on conversation is “You have to be interested in order to be interesting.” In other words you must take the initiative to get to know her, this is done by asking her questions.

There are two basic questions I suggest:

1. Where are you from?

2. What do you do for work/school?

This will get a response for example: “I am from here, born and raised”

You should respond with a follow up question such as: “Really, so all your family lives here also?”

The purpose for these specific questions is they will almost always elicit a response that will give you more information for follow up questions.

Another example if you use question #2 and she responds with: “I work in sales”

You could then follow up with “What sort of sales?” or “How long have you been doing it?” or even simple questions such as “do you like it?”

After you ask 2 or 3 follow up questions you should answer the questions you asked her, regardless of if she asks them of you or not. In other words after she told you where she was from, and how long she lived there, … you would respond with telling her where you are from and how long you have lived there.

By answering your own questions you overcome two large obstacles.

1. She does not feel like she is being interviewed

2. She feels like she is getting to know you because you are revealing information about yourself.

Last tip; Don’t say anything negative. Instead say good things and don’t talk bad about other people. A woman will form a negative opinion of you if you are complaining about something or bad mouthing someone the first time she meets you.

To learn more about how to pick up women or to learn how to attract a girl. You can also sign up for my newsletter and get a free report – The 7 Deadly Sins 97% Men Make And How To Avoid Them.